bela talbot was exploited by a demon when she was a young girl — a demon who offered her protection from her sexually abusive father because nobody else would help and save her
she told dean that nobody would understand—this implies that she came to someone when she was younger, when the abuse was ongoing, and that she was dismissed. that she was brushed off.
they probably told her she was lying because her father was such a nice guy and she probably shouldn’t be saying such things—because think of his reputation
nobody cared about bela’s emotional or physical wellbeing to help her. they preferred to look the other way—including her mother.
so if you condemn bela talbot for making a demon deal to save herself, to protect herself, you are one of the worst people on earth for implying that her parents lives were worth more than her own well being—that bela had no right to protect herself or her autonomy (which is pretty fucking hypocritical since you probably herald team free will yeah your misogyny is not as veiled as you think it is and is, actually, rank and disgusting)